We've been travelling for 6-7 weeks now and are feeling pretty settled into the lifestyle. As some of you may of heard the start of our trip was not particularly successful. Whilst nothing of major consequence happened it was fairly stressful and provided a certain lack of control.
As our plan to leave Delhi was ruined we needed a new one. One of the many 'tourist information centers' of Delhi was more than happy to provide us with an alternative. For anyone who is planning to come to India it is particularly important to take businesses, information and offers with a pinch of salt. Our original plan was to head around a loop of the north via Rishikesh-Manali-Leh-Srinagar. The alternative was to head to Srinagar first.
This is an extremely common destination for bewildered tourists in Delhi. The 'tourist information centers' have a large network of friends and acquaintances who run hotels in Delhi, drive taxis in Delhi and most importantly some who own houseboats in Srinagar. They'll charge you around 8000rs (80 pounds) for a bus ride and houseboat stay. Upon reflection this equates to a 1400 (14 pound) 24 hour government bus ride and 3 nights in a houseboat, the owner of which gets a cut of the remaining charge. Some of the money also goes to the friendly characters and taxi drivers that sneakily steer you from the streets of Delhi to their mates 'tourist information center'. As our initial situation led to us being under-prepared and lacking knowledge of places to stay in Delhi it was all too easy for us to fall into this hole. It's all linked and well-oiled.
As a result the houseboat accommodation ends up being too expensive, depending on your budget, but relatively it's still not too bad. After all Srinagar and Dal lake is a beautiful place. The hardest part of the whole process is the feeling that you've been herded and milked. This feeling inevitably passes with time.
One of the big reasons Srinagar and the houseboats is such a popular place to funnel unsuspecting tourists towards, is that it works very well as a large scale sales environment. Houseboats moored 15 minutes plus away from shore make it hard for a quick retreat should you want to leave. Moving around the lake takes time and requires a boat to be provided. They can take you to their friend who sells jewelry, scarves etc and some interactions become unavoidable. As long as you are confident and say no, when you feel you need to, nothing bad will happen. Regardless it can be somewhat stressful and some may feel trapped.
It is just a feeling though, if you want to leave and you ask to do so, no one will make you stay.
Most owners directly sell, or are linked to people who sell, treks and sight-seeing tours. The prices are always heavily inflated with some people reportedly paying close to 150 pounds a day for treks in the local area. We feel we were certainly pressured into our final decision but importantly we were very keen to purchase what was being offered. We haggled and threatened to leave until we were offered the trek and a ride to Leh for close to 25 pound a day. In hindsight it's clear that this is still a large amount of money and that the atmosphere and situation had the desired (in their eyes) effect. In other circumstances I doubt we would of parted with the money.
I advise travelers who are thinking of trekking in Kashmir, or have found themselves in a similar situation, to be assertive and to shop around first. Be conscious that a stern no is a useful tool. So early in our trip and directly after our experiences in Delhi and the trip north we failed to exhibit such vigilance.
Although slightly overpriced, even with halving the original cost, it was certainly hard to remain sour about parting with money. The trek was breath-taking and the insight into the mountain people's lives and culture was extremely unique. An experience we will cherish forever. Our guides told us that some people ignore them while trekking or only talk to order them about. The friendship we formed made it so much more special. Even if they did find a talking Giraffe a little strange!
Uncertainty is the case with many transactions in India, it seems dodgy and strange but, almost always, you get what you asked for or where you wanted to be.
Most importantly the events of the first few weeks, followed by a peaceful time to reflect upon them, have done a marvelous job of preparing us for India and its nuances. We have had a crash course in false-advertising, pressured sales environments, haggling and general trickery. The result isn't paranoia, it's a heightened sense in regards to such things and an alertness that brings us comfort. I truly believe that we're better off for the experience. I'd rather it happened to begin with than subtly tripping us over throughout the rest of the trip.
With these conclusions fresh in our minds we arrived in Leh 3 weeks into our trip and for the first real time since Delhi we were completely free and in control. From that moment forward we have been assertive and relaxed, able to soak in the brilliance and insane diversity of the small slice of India we have seen so far.
Anyway, that's it for now,
Love to you all,
Giraffery.